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willing to work for help to be father husband NOT LOSER

GENO3 started this conversation

this mornin i got into a screaming match with my mother in law she wa mad because we need her to give us rides alot because we dont have a car and i was pissed because im already feeliong like crap with out a job or money and even needing this kind of help and she is telling me how im a loser cause i am on methadone and dont work i couldnt take it any more and i started arguing with her my wife said i should have kept my mouth shut cause her mom was helping us i understand that but its reallly hard i dont think people have the right to talk to me like shit because i need thier help i overcame a vicious drug addiction i ahve slipped but nothing is perfect but god i am motivated to make a life for my wife amy "my angel" our son xavier and our new one on he way i am at my wits end FOR REAL drastic times call for drastic measures i dont know what to do i cant go on like this we are constantly struggling and at someone elses mercy i have had my whole life taken away due to drugs i wa ALWAYS AT SOMEONE ELSES MERCY now im clean there is NO reason i should have to live like this someone please help give me one shot!!

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stimlin

I don't get it. So let me get this straight...you're an "ex" drug addict that has "slipped" and thats now addicted to methadone, not quite sure where the "ex" falls in.....you don't work, you live at your wife's mothers place with your two kids. 

You're asking for someone to "help and give me one shot" yet you fail to recognize that your mother in law has done exactly that and you do nothing but get into a screaming fit at her because she didn't want to be your chauffeur.

You need to show this woman a little respect and gratitude. 

I think I'll pass. Good luck.

 

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ValiGirl

i would try talikg to your mother in law n if its hard just print out wat u said here and show her how u feel. n yea that sounds kinda corney but its worth a shot.

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Radermom

Facing what my husband and I are facing would be for a lot of other people frighting and scary, But because we KNOW that God is going to bless us, and that we are just waiting on him, to bring the right moment, the right place, the right situation. And he will, we just have to be human and let him take the supernatural stuff in his capable hands. I know it can be hard to live in your mother in laws home, or accept her help when she treats you so wrong, but my advise is to pray for God to change you, pray for him to give you a heart for your mother in law, and pray for a mirical to happen in your relationship with her. When she treats you bad, just say "im sorry you feel that way mom, im praying about it." and then Pray for her too, because its VERY hard to pray for someone that hurts you, but when you do, miricals happen. I wish you the best of luck. Hang in there, God has NEVER left you, and he knows your broken right now, he is right there with you waiting for you to say "lets talk" 

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KINDHEARTED1

I know what it is to be at the mercy of someone else...so..if you have to be at someones mercy...let it be Gods. We have a tendency to wonder why we go through what we go through..When the answer is clear.He wants us to know that without him...nothing is possible. Oh it goes well for awhile..then the bottom falls out.That is when he wants us to give it all to Him,and trust that he will make a way out of now way! I am not speaking from opinion..I am speaking from experience. I am in danger of getting evicted any day now! But I know that he will make a way out of no way,because he said he would. If you  haven't excepted Him as your Lord and savior, think about it. Because He said"no man get to the father(GOD)but through me" And if he be for you...who can be against you? Meaning that he is there in our time of need..We have to submit our will to him..and realize that it isn't us who will get us out of this mess...only He can clear the way for us..So in closing..stay strong my friend. And just ask him to give you the strength to stand when everything around you seems to be falling apart...If ever you need to talk..I am here! God bless you!

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positive thoughts

Hi, I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through.  I would like to say congratulations on being clean.  That is one huge step.  I also would have to agree no one should be called a loser.  You are overcoming with and that in itself makes you a winner.  I will be praying for you.  Everything will work out.  I am wishing you and your family the best.  Faith is the victory.

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